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January 14, 2006

DO NOT even go to this site until you have at least half an hour because you’re going to get hooked…addicted…completely. Talk about inspiration! Remember LJC FYI? I had not had a chance to visit her Projects Page until recently. How can a person be this creative and artistic — and not be too snobby to share it with the rest of us? I mean, she makes all this incredible stuff, then she describes it for us, like we can do it too. And her descriptions are so funny!

My husband had to leave the room because he got tired of hearing me say, “Oh, look at this! Can you believe this! This is so cute!!!” After a while, what’s a guy supposed to say about flowers and butterflies painted on a Puppet Theatre? (You’ve GOT to see what she and her husband made!)

Sometimes, I kind of miss my college roommates. Well, now I’ve got to find somebody who discovers this Projects Page and goes as crazy as I am over all these ideas. Please send me a comment! I’m not going to be able to stop thinking about this — I think I’m insanely jealous. But I’ll get over it because she blogged all of her secrets to me.

Go look at her Handmade Felt Hearts for Valentine’s Day — wouldn’t those be fun for kids to make? And the Harry Potter birthday cake is too amazing.

P.S. I missed this one — my sister wrote to tell me she couldn’t wait to try to make the Valentine’s Day Cranberry Body Scrub. Now there’s something useful to do with those baby food jars.

By: Heather Ivester in: Blogging,Cooking & Recipes | Permalink | Comments Off on More Inspiring Project Ideas



January 13, 2006

Lanier wrote a beautiful post about how she makes her Winter Vegetable Pie. This kind of narrative writing makes me want to head to the store and look for those parsnips.

She writes:

This pie is made with a lovely assortment of roasted root vegetables and mushrooms. I even love buying the ingredients–how few recipes in our American repertoire call for parsnips! I always feel so ‘Mr. MacGregor-ish’…The whole process of this dish is delightsome. The rhythmic peeling and chopping and piling; the subtle sizzle coming from the oven as the vegetables roast and the intoxicating aroma that fills the house as the flavors intensify. Even the walk down to the hen house to toss out the trimmings as a special treat to the girls, and the happy, chuckling clucks of pleasure with the carrot peels and mushroom ends disappear before my very eyes.

That just makes me smile reading it. Even the hens get to partake in the pleasures of this pie. I think I’m feeling more inspired as I imagine the sounds of happy clucking. (I wonder if the next day’s eggs are a bit more tasty.)




I could hardly believe it when I found this picture the other day. Here she is! The real FlyLady. I read email messages from her all the time, so it’s great to feel like I’m actually getting to “meet” her. Her name is Marla Cilley — and she’s written several books, which I haven’t had a chance to read yet.

She is slowly changing my life. I was talking about her with one of my friends who said, “You know what I love about her is that she makes you feel good about yourself. She makes you feel like you’re NOT behind. Just jump in wherever you are.”

That’s true. I breeze through her messages every day, reading testimonials from people whose lives, homes, marriages, families have been totally changed — and I think: wow. People are motivated by positive words instead of criticism.

I don’t have time to email my testimonial, but maybe FlyLady will discover my blog. Anyway, here’s what she did for me this week. My kids started back in school, and…already, my toddler has brought home a stomach bug. A bad one. (A very contagious one…).

He discovered this during his afternoon nap. So, I had loads to wash. No problem — my laundry is caught up, thanks to FlyLady’s encouragement. We had some chaos over here that day, though. Despite the stomach bug, my son felt fine and kept moving around the house, playing, stopping a minute here and there to remind me he really was still sick. (Read: more wash for me to do.)

Now, normally, this would have sent me into a downward spiral. Overwhelmed. Frustrated. Exhausted. These words would have described me. But thanks to my mission to stick to my morning and evening FlyLady routines, I said to myself, “I can’t do everything. But I can keep my laundry caught up and my sink shiny.” (Well, my solid-surface sink is not really shiny, but it’s empty and clean.)

My week further proves FlyLady’s main point: morning and evening routines give you something stable to aim for, and when you’re thrown for a loop by something disheartening like a stomach virus, your house doesn’t have to fall apart. You ought to read some of these other people’s stories. They’ll definitely encourage you that you’re not behind.




The biggest news right now in the book world is the controversy surrounding James Frey’s book, A Million Little Pieces. Are you keeping up with this? It’s interesting to me because it sets a precedent for publishers. Frey has been accused of embellishing facts (lying) in his bestselling memoir, which Oprah picked for her book club. Here’s what Publisher’s Weekly passed along:

Emotional, This Quest for Truth
It would be an understatement to say there is an abundance of stories on James Frey, his Larry King appearance last night, and Oprah’s dramatic last-minute blessing of the “emotional truth” of however it is that he told his tale. We presume that if you’re interested, there’s little new we can tell you, just as our subjective assumption is that you’ve probably already formed a firm opinion on the matter… The LAT editorial column is pretty clear on their position: “It’s hard to know which is worse: a writer who acts as though there is no distinction between a novel and a memoir, or a publisher who does not care.”
Oprah’s Board
Time: Prose and Cons
LAT editorial

I really liked the LAT opinion, if you have time to read it. Although I haven’t read Frey’s book and have no intention of doing so, this brings up the whole issue of what people expect from an author. I expect a made-up story in a novel and truth in a memoir.

Right now, I’m reading Mary DeMuth’s Building the Christian Family You Never Had, which is based on the story of her life. That’s what makes the book interesting — Mary reveals experiences from her past as a way of showing the reader how to heal and move forward with God’s help. This is a nonfiction book, and I trust that she’s telling the truth — in the same way that Frey’s readers trusted him.

Another bit of book news that caught my eye — what books are the most borrowed books from the library?

Top Fiction: Lifeguard by James Patterson and Andrew Gross (Little, Brown), The Mermaid Chair by Sue Monk Kidd (Viking Adult), and 4th of July by James Patterson (Little, Brown).

Top Nonfiction: A Million Little Pieces by James Frey (Anchor Books), Freakonomics: A Rogue Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything by Stephen J. Dubner (Morrow), and Natural Cures “They” Don’t Want You to Know About by Kevin Trudeau (Alliance Publishing).

The nonfiction is what interests me. Readers are fascinated with other people’s lives, how to be financially successful, and health issues. I expect five years from now the top books will also cover these same subjects — using a fresh approach. Maybe you could write one based on your life experiences!

By: Heather Ivester in: Books | Permalink | Comments Off on Fact or Fiction?



January 12, 2006

On Saturday, I flipped through an edition of USA Weekend, and my eyes fell on this article: “15 Things You Must Do For Your Baby.” Of course I was interested, as I held my youngest on my hip. I skimmed the headings out loud for my other children, laughing through topics like “Visit the Dentist by Age 1.” (Our baby has no teeth yet — what would the dentist say? My, what nice gums you have, my dear.”)

But when I read #15, I had to stop reading out loud because I couldn’t believe it. There must have been smoke coming out of my ears. Listen to this:

#15 Working parents: Skip the Guilt.

The number of hours Mom spends with Baby makes little difference in the child’s intellectual or social development, according to a recent study from the University of Texas. What’s more important is how often Mom engages Baby in play or talks to her. The study of more than 1,000 children up to age 3 also found that working moms spent less time on average with their children, but the difference was much smaller than researchers expected. Working moms compensated for lost time by spending more time with Baby on weekends and ditching other activities. In fact, working moms spent a slightly higher proportion of their time with their babies on purely social activities like playing and talking than non-working moms did.

I could not disagree more!

I won’t even begin to enter into the topic of working v. non-working moms. What is a working mom? Who is NOT a working mom? (Grrr…)

According to the views in this article, I’m not needed as I stay home with my children. The village can raise my kids just fine without me. I can spend 15 minutes a day playing Peek-a-boo, and then spend the rest of my waking hours flying around the planet in some high-power career and not feel a twinge of remorse. No regrets.

Well, I know a lot of really smart, really social adults who have totally messed up their lives because they didn’t have a mother at home to teach them what really matters: character. Who cares if someone grows up brilliant and popular if they get addicted to alcohol? Or they can’t commit to finishing school, staying married, or sticking out a career?

This morning, my two-year-old son was sitting in a chair while I helped get his shoes on.

“Is this an old chair?” he asked me.

“Yes, that’s an old chair that used to belong to your Papa.”

“Who’s Papa?” He wanted to know.

I fought back a surge of tears. He’ll never get to know my grandfather, who slipped away into eternity the very same day this little boy learned to crawl. “Papa was Nana’s Daddy. Now he lives in heaven. With Jesus.”

“He lives in heaven? With Jesus?” He looked at me intently, then looked outside at the sky. “Oh, he lives in heaven. With Jesus.”

Later that morning, he said to me again, “Papa lives in heaven. With Jesus. I know that.”

So, I was there. In the brief time it took to tie a shoe, I taught a small boy about one of the finest individuals who ever lived, his great-grandfather. I linked him to his past. And I began helping him understand the lifelong journey he will take toward heaven…teaching him gently, slowly, that heaven is where Jesus lives. This is my faith…that I’m passing on to him.

Will this conversation show up on some study? An intellectual or social test of some sort? I don’t think so.

The world may say that children don’t need their moms around. But I beg to differ. Nobody needs me more than my family.

By: Heather Ivester in: Parenting | Permalink | Comments & Trackbacks (7)



January 11, 2006

We love Antiques Roadshow. It’s one of our favorites on PBS. I’ve always wondered how you can get on that show. Well, now that I’m privy to tons of press releases, I’ll pass this info on to you.

Maybe you’re storing a million-dollar masterpiece up in your attic. Find out. (Then sell it and do something interesting!)

From Philadelphia to Hawaii, ANTIQUES ROADSHOW will travel more than five thousand miles across America searching for hidden treasure this summer. PBS’s most-watched primetime series has announced its summer 2006 Tour destinations…Tour features a series of local events at which top appraisers offer the public free evaluations of antiques and collectibles — revealing the often surprising history and value of these items. The most interesting finds from each city will air in 2007.

ANTIQUES ROADSHOW 2006 stops and dates include:
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Tucson, Arizona June 17, 2006

Salt Lake City, Utah June 24, 2006

Mobile, Alabama July 8, 2006

Milwaukee, Wisconsin July 29, 2006

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania August 5, 2006

Honolulu, Hawaii August 26, 2006

Admission to ANTIQUES ROADSHOW events is free, but tickets are required.

Ticketing rules and deadlines will be available online beginning March 13, 2006. Ticket holders are invited to bring two items for a free verbal evaluation by experts from the world’s leading auction houses — including Bonhams & Butterfields, Christie’s, Doyle New York, Skinner, and Sotheby’s — and by leading independent appraisers and dealers. All ticket holders are guaranteed an appraisal.

Now’s the time to get rid of all that junk you’ve been hoarding. Find out if it’s valuable. If not, drop it off at one of those Ebay stores or give it away to someone who needs it. Or throw it away!

By: Heather Ivester in: Organization | Permalink | Comments & Trackbacks (7)



Do you feel like a chef when you’re whipping up dinner every night for your family? Does your creativity flow when you’re adding a dash of this or that to your roast in the crock pot? You may not see yourself as a food critic, but every time you decide whether something tastes good or needs a little more salt, you are.

And when you scribble down a recipe that you copy from a magazine or from a dish you loved at your Sunday School potluck, you’re a food writer.

Here’s a book I recently enjoyed. I can even go so far as to say it’s changed my life — though that may sound a bit too spiritual. Ever since reading it, I’ve connected food with words in my mind, and it’s made cooking and describing food much more interesting. I read this book before I had my blog, so I reviewed it on Amazon — all by my lonesome. Now I can share it with you real people!

What is food writing? Before I read Jacob’s book, I thought I might learn a few techniques for writing restaurant reviews. Wow — I was wrong! This is a huge, magnificent field, of which I’ve merely sampled my first appetizer.

The author’s research in compiling this book is extensive. In presenting her ideas, she doesn’t limit readers to her own personal experience; she interviewed hundreds of successful food writers and asked them how they got started, what a typical day is like, and what advice they have to give.

Despite her years of industry experience, Jacob truly understands the heart of a beginner, and her voice is as far from snooty-hooty as one can be. Readers will feel encouraged and energized after reading chapters on the secrets of restaurant reviewing, cookbook compiling, recipe writing (yes, it is an art form!), memoir and nonfiction food writing, and food in fiction.

Jacob’s passion is so contagious, her words dance across the page. She seems especially interested in the trend of narrative food writing, and she gives you tips on how to make your writing full of jolt and flavor. What are the three laziest adjectives used to describe food? She says “nice,” “wonderful,” and “delicious.” She writes, “They are so vague that readers don’t know what you mean other than something positive.” Instead, she offers an extensive list of adjectives in chapter 5 that make it well worth the price of the book.

I’m only a simple home cook. My creativity usually involves whipping up kid-friendly favorites without having to dash off to the grocery store for exotic ingredients. Although I’ve written a few of my own recipes, I certainly didn’t realize what an exciting art form food writing can be.

While reading this book, we ate out at a new restaurant, and I imagined myself as one of those fancy New York Times reviewers in disguise (didn’t know they may actually wear wigs!). I had our waiter answering a myriad of questions, and even dashing back to speak with the chef. I brought home a menu and scribbled all over it my impressions.

She quotes experienced food critic Alan Richman who says he can’t wait to see what a restaurant has in store for him. He shares, “I get a hop in my step.”

I think some of you Mom 2 Mom readers out there are secretly gourmet cooks — I enjoy reading your recipes, especially the ones where you add in your stories. I’m crazy about recipe stories! I helped compile a cookbook last summer, and I loved hearing people tell me, “This is the one my great-aunt always made — it never fails to turn out delicious.”

After reading this book, I’ve had several ideas simmering in my mind, and one is to add better food descriptions to my writing — even when I’m adding recipes to my blog. So, if you’ve recently written about food in your blog, send me the link. Inspire me — in the slow month of January — help me put a hop in my step as I open my pantry and decide what to cook…over a thousand times this year.

P.S. I thought I should add that I picked this book out of the Writer’s Digest Book Club catalog, and I paid for it. Nobody asked me to review this book, and I don’t know the author — I just loved her book!

By: Heather Ivester in: Book Reviews | Permalink | Comments & Trackbacks (1)



Carol introduced this week’s Carnival of Beauty on her site with these words:

From snowflakes to fires, from the young to the old, from depression to joy, from warm to cold, from serious to hilarious, winter’s beauty threads its way through this week’s carnival.

I am so blessed to host this week during Sallie’s hiatus. Blessed because of not only the wonderful posts I have the honor of showcasing for you, but because of those post’s writers. God’s women are the true beauty you are about to encounter here…

I encourage you to bookmark this on your computer and browse through these 13 entries throughout your day when you’d like a pick-me-up. I appreciate the time Carol took in compiling them and even putting a cute wintery photo next to each submission. Fun! Her essay is about the dry winter Texas is experiencing. Let’s all pray for the heavens to open up and water the earth where she lives.

Other news: Sally at Children’s Publishing News has posted an excellent interview with Buzz Dixon, creator of the new inspirational manga for teen girls. I reviewed it here in my blog, and I noticed it’s climbing up the CBA Bestseller list. I liked it and am glad to see it doing well — I mentioned in my review that I thought it would be a great tool to have if you’re leading a group of teen girls — they can all relate to the characters in this comic, and it’s a quick, fun read — that glorifies the Gospel.

A couple of months ago, I reviewed another book, The World According to Narnia, by Jonathan Rogers. Since The Lion, the Witch, and The Wardrobe has brought so much publicity to the books of C.S. Lewis, I wondered if Blogcritics might be interested in my review. So, I applied to become a reviewer — which means I can write reviews in my blog and send them to Blogcritics. This site gets over 50,000 hits a day! I’m not crazy about some of the ads on there — but I do want to introduce my favorite Christian books to as many people as possible.

Well, I was accepted as a reviewer on Monday — and they posted my first review yesterday — of The World According to Narnia. If you’ve read this book or any of the author’s Wilderking books, I’d love a comment or two on Blogcritics! It will stay on the front page for a few days, then make its way into the book review archives — but you can comment at any time.

By: Heather Ivester in: Writing | Permalink | Comments & Trackbacks (2)



January 10, 2006

I’ve been pondering this “Beauty of Winter” topic for weeks. What’s there to write about? I’ve wondered. We don’t have snow here in Georgia, except for a rare ice storm maybe once every couple of years. Then our schools close, and we send our kids out to play in an inch of quickly melting snow flurries.

In fact, it irked me all last month when I kept having to hear “I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas” and “Walking in a Winter Wonderland” over and over on the radio; we never have “treetops glistening and children listening to hear sleighbells in the snow” around here.

A few years ago, my husband took a research position at Dalhousie University in Halifax, Nova Scotia. Now there was a beautiful winter! We rented an old Victorian house in the downtown area, and a white blanket of snow covered the ground for weeks at a time. My neighbors loaned us a sleigh, and I spent many happy hours pulling my toddler-age son around our backyard.

Since I had few friends, I kept myself occupied by exploring for hours every day in this British-built dreamland. It was about 20 blocks from our house to the city library, and beyond that, only a few more blocks to the icy Atlantic sea. I loaded up my double stroller with my son and infant daughter, and we were off. Watching grand ships dock into a snowy harbor — now that was beauty!

But God has been speaking to my heart lately about seeking Him first to discover the quiet treasures of joy. Maybe it’s these writing carnivals; maybe it’s blogging. I don’t know! But I’m on a mission to dig deeper into what matters most in life — and to uncover and share it.

Last week, as I walked alone to our mailbox — the same old hum-drum thing I do every day — I said a prayer. Lord, please help me find some joy today. Forgive me for complaining in my heart so much. I want to find something to praise you for today. I know — that seems like a shallow prayer. But after I prayed, I felt lighter inside.

We don’t have snow to rejoice in, but we have plenty of sun, and it seemed to spread its warmth on me at that moment. The air smelled a bit sweeter. I looked over and noticed my neighbor’s horses frolicking in the crisp wind.

And then I heard something. Could it be? No! But it was. I heard the sound of clippity-clopping horse hooves. And jingle bells. The sound of jingle bells! I stood spellbound, as an honest-to-goodness team of horses pulling a wooden cart came prancing down my street. Four men sat atop this cart and stopped in front of my mailbox while I admired their rig.

“You’ve got to come back!” I told them. “I’ve got a bunch of kids in my house. They’ve got to see this. I can’t believe it!”

“We’ll turn around and come back,” the driver told me. “You bring those kids down here, and we’ll give ’em a ride.”

So I did. And they did. They came back to my house and picked up my three older children and gave them the ride of their lives. All around our gravel driveway — twice! I can tell you, my heart was leaping! The sound of jingle bells, the clopping of horse hooves, and three kids bouncing along into the new year etching a happy memory into their hearts.

That was winter beauty for me. And I think God allowed me to see that only after I’d prayed. Because after they left, after it was over, I had nothing to do but stand there and praise Him. Thank you for horses, Lord! Thank you for children, thank you for jingle bells, thank you for sunny winters, thank you for JOY!

I have told you this so that my joy may be in you
and that your joy may be complete.
John 15:11

(by heather lynn ivester)

By: Heather Ivester in: Writing | Permalink | Comments & Trackbacks (7)



January 9, 2006

I hope you had a good weekend. I took some time to add several new links into my “Favorites” Blogroll. These are websites and blogs I look forward to visiting — most of these bloggers update several times a week. So, I enjoy having something current and interesting to read — and I hope you’ll be able to visit them too.

I also figured out how to get that Technorati Search Tool on my blog — do you see it down there on the bottom left in my sidebar? You can type in topics you’re interested in to see if I’ve written about them. For example, Iris asked if I’d studied under Beth Moore — to find out if I’ve posted about her, you can type “Beth Moore” into that Search Tool, and you can see two posts that I wrote in October about the Beth Moore Bible Study I’m attending. I have to give Terry Whalin credit for this — he has this tool in his blog, so I’ve added it to mine. I hope it will make Mom 2 Mom Connection more user friendly for people who are searching for certain topics.

I found out that Sallie of Two Talent Living will be taking a sabbatical from blogging while she pursues other writing projects. Here’s what she said:

I also really want to spend more time writing for publication. Writing is my gift and writing is my part of our business. And the totally honest truth is that as much as I love blogging, I’m not making any money. I know that sounds crass and that I’ve viewed my blog as a ministry, but the reality is, blogging doesn’t pay any bills. And blogging is taking way too much of my time right now. I need to be pursuing my writing as my profession for now.

I’m glad she was able to be so honest! It definitely takes time to scour the markets and find what publishers are looking for — then you need to contact editors, make sure you have their names spelled correctly, your writing meets the needs of their schedule and particular audience…and you have to meet deadlines.

People in the publishing business are always coming and going, so you really need to contact the publication directly before you send anything off — or you may have the wrong editor’s name. Then there are themes…and word counts…and other guidelines. And you should also read through a few sample copies of a periodical before you know the writing style they’re looking for. It’s exciting work, but also time-consuming.

Since I also write for publication — and keep a blog — I’ve found what works best is that I write for my deadlines in the early morning when I can think without being interrupted…then I write a blog post in the afternoon, when I feel relaxed and want to email people. I love the timestamp tool where I can postdate my entries!

While Sallie’s taking a break from hosting the Carnival of Beauty, other lady bloggers have stepped in to host. Here are the upcoming topics and hostesses:

January 8 – Winter – Carol (She Lives)
January 15 – Hope – Ellen (MzEllen & Co.)
January 22 – Serving – Amanda (following an unknown path)
January 29 – Gentleness – Iris (eph2810)
February 5 – Contentment – Bethany (A Picturesque Life)

So, visit the Guidelines and send your post to Carol by Tuesday afternoon at 2 pm — Texas time! While I was visiting Carol’s blog, I noticed she had a cute quiz on there — and since my birthday is coming up this month, I followed the link.

Who writes these things? It’s eery (and a bit embarrassing) how they seem to know me! Try it and see what they’ve written for you.


Your Birthdate: January 23


You’re not good at any one thing, and that’s the problem.
You’re good at so much – you never know what to do.
Change is in your blood, and you don’t stick to much for long.
You are destined for a life of travel and fun.

Your strength: Your likeability

Your weakness: You never feel satisfied

Your power color: Bright yellow

Your power symbol: Asterisk

Your power month: May

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